Old World Underground
It becomes a control issue for them I think. I don't know. But it's my conclusion. I've treated some females very good in the past and got nothing in return except the worst in behavior. And then we have my 'right now situation'. The woman I am currently with is an "I love Lucy" dingbat. Always testing and poking and prodding. Of course I shut that shid down as soon as it starts and I am as blunt as can be, much like I am here. I've tried getting rid of her just because it is very aggravating, and she will not go away. So after 4 years of trying I just gave up. And we are still together. whatever. It's the end of the world anyway. On the upside, she says the 'n' word now and again, and doesn't say a peep when I go on a rant after watching the news, so there is that. And she does cook and do my laundry. So I guess that's a victory. My guess is she sticks around because I don't take her crap.You're right, if she gets a whiff of "I'm looking to be in a serious relationship" then she's turned off, but if you're just going to screw around/entertain her then all's well. The female mind is truly sickening.